We've got a bit of a knotty problem chez 'Making Good Use' at the moment and we really don't know what to do for the best. I'd love to know what your take on the issue is - any ideas would be very gratefully received.
Right next to our house is a large garage which looks like it should belong to our house but it doesn't, it belongs to the lady in the last bungalow of another road. She's in her 70s and is a very nice person who I often stop and chat with and whom we've both got on with very well over the time we've lived here (five years.) Just before Christmas her son-in-law took over the garage and started doing it up in order to run a motorcycle training business from there. We had no problem with this and were quite happy to let builders and roofers in to our garden in order to make the garage watertight. A large security light, a phone line and, of course, half a dozen or so motorbikes were subsequently installed. We still had no problem with the activity at all.
However, recently - especially since the advent of the better weather - we have been woken up tres early on numerous occasions (one weekend it was 8.00 am both Saturday and Sunday) by frantic revving of motorbike engines, and loud talking and laughing practically outside the bedroom window. After yet another rude awakening on Friday morning (7.00 am or thereabouts) P had a polite word with the chap and told him that we were finding the noise and general commotion very intrusive. The chap was most apologetic and very polite about it all. Saturday morning he was much quieter but by Sunday it was back to square one - albeit not quite so early.
Our problem is what should we do next. Do we have another word with him (and he doesn't even live in the bungalow that owns the garage by the way - he doesn't even live in our town,) and give him another chance to tone it down a bit, do we have a word with his mother-in-law who owns the garage, or do we go straight for the jugular and report him to the local council for running a business from a residential address.
One of the main benefits of living in this house is that it has always been incredibly peaceful around and about and both P and I are now finding the noise and intrusion of this happening practically in our own garden very very stressful.
I would add that the chap involved seems to be a really pleasant bloke and I know he was made redundant last year and that he set up this business to try and get himself back on his feet. I don't really want to cause him a load of aggro but he is breaking the law and he is really intrusive and noisy in a very quiet residential road. Even our next-door neighbours have said that they're not too happy about what he is doing - although not to him - and I suspect other neighbours are also finding it all rather trying, although none are as directly affected as we are.
Being an uber coward myself, I would just move (there are other issues with the house that I would be glad to leave behind as well) and let someone else deal with the problem. But that's just me - a typical Cancerian - who never faces a problem head on and who likes to avoid confrontation at any cost.
What would you do to try and resolve the problem?